It's just the reliability factor that cause me to rule out the older designs, the weight isn't much of an an issue once the SLA is removed.
Both the Quando and Sprint will do the towing job well, but the Sprint's gears could prove useful. The Quando II is best for fairly fast climbing as the 70" gear isn't so suitable at slower speeds. The kids might prefer the view from the trailer with the Quando though, as they won't have so much wheel in the way.
I'd decide this on the basis of how steep the hills are. If they are up to 10 (1 in 10) at most, I'd choose the Quando, but with 30 kilos plus trailer, hills steeper than that might be easier at lower speeds with the seven speed hub gear as it would mean sometimes standing on the pedals for the fast climb on the Quando.
I've never tried the modern (illegal) performance motors, but most are meant for speed rather than pulling power. Many use the higher voltage route for that. They will tow more powerfully to some extent, but it's in speed that there's most of the gain. One problem is that the range is almost invariably short, 10 miles at most being common, so a second battery may need to be carried.
As speed is not a problem, you might consider the legal geared down hub motors which pull much better than those standard geared. There's the Heinzmann low geared version with 11.5 mph maximum assist speed but very good hill climbing, and there's also the eZee Chopper which could be good for the job. Basically it's the Sprint with 20" wheels instead of 26", so for hill climbing and towing it's very powerful, it still has the Sprint 7 speed hub, and the view for the kids would be better too. The only possible problem is if you are fairly tall, only for a rider up to 5' 6" according to 50cycles.