If it's noisey it's likely to be a geared hub motor. I get the impression the bike is newly purchased. I thought that a slightly noisey hub motor I've used seemed to got a little quieter with some use but maybe just my mind playing tricks as I got used to noise.
These internally geared hub motors can be noisy but do not necessarily need to be excessivley noisey. It is very much model specific and unfortunately if your motor just happens to be rather noisey by design there's not much you can do apart from change it for another type. However if it is excessively noisely I'd recommend you get someone with some experience to have a listen as it could have an issue.
The other thing that may ease your embarassment a little and give you a bit more exercise at the same time, is to use the pedals more to get the bike up to speed along with some motor assistance and then use the motor to maintain. Even noisy hub motors are much quieter when just maintaining a steady speed and you'll go a bit further on the battery too, as an added bonus
