For a numpty
To check the tension on a wheel (something, I have never done) at the nipple is it clock wise to tension, or anticlockwise? As I said above, wheel geometry is new to me. Woosh stated that he nips up wheels with a sixteenth of a turn?
if you tighten your spokes or true your wheel for the first time, you would want to know how tight you want your spokes to be.
I have a spoke tensiometer, so it's not difficult to check, but if you don't, first make sure that all the 36 spokes are tightened at least until there is no slack and you start to feel the pressure turning the spoke key.
Then starting from the spoke nearest to the valve, tighten half a turn all 36 spokes.
Now you need to make sure that the rim runs true. If the wheel needs truing, watch a few youtube videos how to true your wheel. Assuming your rim runs true (both horizontally and vertically, within +/- 0.5mm-1mm), now it's the time to tension up all your spokes. If you have a tensiometer, you want to see 125kgs-135kgs. If you don't, watch the spokes when you tighten the nipples, stop as soon as you see the spoke shank starts to twist with the spoke key when you turn the key. That's the sweet point, it corresponds approximately to about 130kgs tension.
This is the 13G spoke key I use, it's colour coded, it's red.
https://www.wiggle.co.uk/x-tools-pro-spoke-wrench-1/
You find plenty similar on ebay.
never tighten a spoke that already feels tight (no slack and pings with a clear sound) more than 1/4 (90 degrees) of a turn at a time, check and nip up all other spokes before tightening more the same spoke.
If you use the wear groove on the rim as guide, note that one turn of the nipple shortens the spoke by 1mm, a quater turn = 0.25mm.