My bike has XLR connections and I find them very easy but they have a metal locking pin with a release button to release them, so maybe my version is made easy because it has a locking clip, I had to change them recently because they fell appart. I don't know if I accidentaly reversed the male/female but I don't think so, maybe the plugs ar just different, but I have to be EXTREMELY careful when plugging them in because all around the plug is metal, and a slight misalignment equals a 200 amp short (it's OBVIOUS these are for ultra low tension microphone signals, who got the crazy idea of using this on 200 amp batteries!?!), it happened just a few days ago, it literally sounds like a rocket taking off as the metal vaporizes into a gas from the intense heat (I was lucky the battery was nearly completely dead, I'd hate to imagone qhat a short looks like on these batteries when full, I saw 2 or 3 shorts on these batteries and each time the battery was almost completely empty, it's still an extremely violent short, far more terrifying than a 120 volt 15 A [I'm in Canada] short). Luckily the plug amazingly still works.
I had also recently drilled a hole in my battery pack to add an emergency shut down switch, I got this idea because I had added cables going directly to the battery (not even through the ignition key switch) for a better battery level indicator (my bike has those pointless green/yellow/red digital meters you can't even see unless it's at night, even when you see it it's completely pointless other than a last minute warning that the battery is dead).
Well one day when leaving with my groceries I was unlocking the bike when suddenly clouds of dense smoke started pouring out of it like crazy, people must have thought there was a huge fire. There's was NOTHING I could do, the battery was physically jammed onto the bike, the wires bypassed all switches, and I just had to wait for the short to melt itself out, which it eventually did. At this point I was sure the bike was dead, I turn the key and amazingly the battery level indicator lights up, so I think ok, the level still works but there's no way the motor/controller will. So I leave the grocery store convinced I'd have to pedal hard all the way home, but the auto pedal assist kicked in as usual, I couldn't beleive it! Only the wire I had added melted, leaving all original wires and equipement untouched!
Anyway if you read my other threads you know I got lucky that time, but I blew 2 controllers in a week after that and now resorted to using a relay and push button to control my motor while I wait for my new controller.